My Transformation

The Painful Reality of Sickle Cell Anaemia

Living with sickle cell anaemia has defined much of my life, causing episodes of severe pain in my bones, muscles, and joints, especially during stressful times. The struggle was real and deeply influenced my decision to become a doctor. I understood pain better than most and wanted to help others in similar situations. However, once I started practicing, the overwhelming workload and stress led to me suffering frequent sickle cell crises, making my dream job a nightmare.

A Doctor's Dream Turns Into a Nightmare

I often pushed myself to work through the pain to support my colleagues and patients. This relentless effort left me feeling exhausted and disillusioned, realizing that the systemic failures in healthcare were not only harming my health but also preventing patients from receiving the care they needed. My passion for being a doctor faded, and I found myself dreading each workday.

Desperate for Change: Temporary Fixes

Seeking a way out, I went through two distinct phases over six to seven years. Initially, I aimed for financial independence while continuing my medical career. Between extreme frugality, stock market investing and even the lottery everything failed. Then, I tried to make my work more bearable through quiet quitting and escapism, but nothing brought lasting relief.

An Epiphany in Crete: The Path to Flow

The moment that changed everything came during a holiday in Crete in June 2023. The serene environment and a book on optimal experience, "Flow" by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, made me realize that I rarely experienced joy or satisfaction in my job. This epiphany led me to seriously consider changing careers. Conversations with a fellow GP and my own introspection made me realize my true calling was life coaching. I loved motivating and inspiring people and did it opportunistically as a doctor.

Transformative Training and Finding My Niche

Encouraged by this newfound clarity, I decided to pursue life coaching seriously. I enrolled in a professional diploma course and spent countless hours coaching clients. I discovered a niche in helping disillusioned professionals, resonating deeply with their struggles from my own experience.

Unlocking Potential: The Power of Personal Development

My coaching journey has been transformative. I realised that personal development is crucial to overcoming mental blockers and achieving happiness and success. Thats why I packaged everything I've learnt into my disillusionment coaching process. I focus on developing seven key characteristics: openness, self-awareness, honesty, vulnerability, responsibility, proactivity, and discipline. By helping you to master these traits you can create the reality you desire.

The Coaching Experience: Creating Safe Spaces

Reflecting on my best experiences of being coached myself, I strive to provide my clients with a supportive, non-judgmental space to explore their thoughts and feelings. This has produced overwhelmingly positive results, with clients gaining confidence, achieving their goals, and improving their mental well-being.

From Doctor to Life Coach: A Fulfilling Journey

Now, as a life coach, I feel more fulfilled than ever. Although I still do occasional GP locum shifts, I am healthier and more positive, having found a passion that makes work feel effortless. My coaching business allows me to wake up every day with a sense of purpose, working towards goals that align with my values.

Embracing a New Purpose: Helping Others Transform

This journey has led me from being a disillusioned doctor to a fulfilled life coach, helping others discover their potential and create lives they love. My purpose now is to guide others through their own transformations, enabling them to achieve happiness and success on their terms.